I get it. Dating in Sydney is hard. You finally muster the confidence to talk to her, you get a conversation going, and she vanishes. You match with her on a dating app, message and nothing. Do you feel like everyone else you know has dating figured out, but you’re still stuck in the same old patterns?

If you’re ready to make a change and are open to acquiring a communication and social skillset that you don’t yet have, this article is for you. As the leading Sydney Dating Coach, so many of our clients at Core Confidence have been successful in their careers or other areas of their lives, but struggle with dating. Dating is a lot more complicated than most people think, and it’s not taught at universities. Don’t worry, we specialise in teaching men how to master dating.

What does a Dating Coach do Day to Day?

Before we go into what a Sydney dating coach is, let’s tick off clearly what a dating coach is not:

• A dating coach is not a pickup artist, giving toxic advice or scripted lines to manipulate women.
• Dating Coaching in Sydney will not involve lying down on a sofa, psychoanalysing your past.
• A dating coach does not operate in a classroom environment, teaching theory.

A genuine Sydney Dating Coach operates in social settings and interacts with real people alongside their client. They will initially help their client build up basic social confidence by engaging people in conversation. This might be asking for the time, commenting about the weather or giving a compliment. Just dipping the toe in the water. 

The level of interaction will then progress to a longer conversation with a woman. The student would develop an understanding of social cues, adjusting tonality, indicators of value, cold reading to spark intrigue and more.

As the student learns to build attraction, develop their body language and flirting skills, the coach will start to implement feedback loops and set goals. This might be to work on one aspect of their dating skill set.

Students who come to us often have some or all of the following problems:

• Getting ghosted on dating apps or after first dates.
• Never having had a relationship before.
• Success in other parts of their lives, but not in dating.
• Too socially anxious to even talk to a girl.

At the end of the coaching program with Core Confidence, we are proud to say that clients come out of the program:

• Having been on multiple, often dozens of dates with women.
• Often say they have had a “life-changing experience”.
• Having pushed their boundaries and developed a mastery of dating skills.
• Finally understanding how to navigate the dating scene in Sydney.

Is a Sydney Dating Coach right for me?

To answer that question, you need to ask yourself several more hard questions,

“Could I improve in the area of dating, relationships and attracting women?”

“Are my conversations on dating apps going nowhere?”

“Am I failing to get on second dates?”

“Do I regularly feel socially awkward?”

“Am I successful in other areas of my life, but not in dating?”

“Am I going to find it difficult to improve my dating skills on my own?”

If you’re answering “yes” to any of the questions above, it’s time to consider hiring a coach.

Most of our clients share their biggest regret that they hadn’t taken action sooner.

How to choose the right Sydney Dating Coach

1. Look for positive reviews; if they have strong Google reviews, multiple valid testimonials and case studies, then that’s a sign that they are delivering an excellent service.
2. Find an Australian coaching company; make sure the company knows Sydney and has a track record of coaching in Sydney. They must know the Sydney culture and the Sydney vibe.
3. Avoid fake gurus; stay away from pick-up artists or people with no real experience or substance claiming to know what they are talking about.
4. Look for a fully fledged Sydney Dating coaching service, not just advice. Ensure that the coach offers immersion sessions in social situations, real feedback, and practice in genuine social settings.

At Core Confidence, we meet all of these criteria and offer you a team that includes qualified Psychologists and stylists, as well as seasoned Sydney Dating Coaches.

What to Expect from a Sydney Dating Coach

Look for a company that offers an initial free consultation. This shows that they are ready to speak to you and provide a customised program for your needs, not just try to take your money.

Option for psychology services and vetting by a genuine psychologist. At Core Confidence, our in-house psychologist, Vanessa, evaluates the programs and provides sessions with students.

Immersion sessions with clear goals and social skills training are essential. The program should offer daytime and nighttime sessions with a coach to fully immerse yourself in supportive social situations. Core Confidence specialises in immersion sessions.

Coaching should create a permanent change in clients' behaviour, building long-term dating and social skills. Core Confidence does this by having the sessions over the space of two months, with students offered an online course and video coaching support, as well as 8 in-person immersion sessions throughout the program. This duration ensures that the student experiences a long-term positive change.

If you’re ready to take action and master dating, get in touch with me now and book a free dating strategy call by clicking the button on this page.